Has Selena changed her opinion on relationships?

For nearly her entire career, Selena Gomez's love life has been the constant subject of scrutiny. But for the first time, with her relationship with The Weeknd, she's got a whole new perspective on dating. "I don't depend on one area of my life to make me happy," she reveals. "It's really important for me to love and nourish my friends and family and to make sure that I never get influenced by a guy." The truth is, in the past, Selena allowed her life to be consumed by who she was dating. "Before I was so young and easily influenced, and I'd feel insecure," she says. "You want someone to add to your life, not to complete you." Amen to that, Selena!